From the first moment I spoke to AJ I thought hey up here comes trouble. Trying to persuade him not to fly, his response was 'Listen darling I'm taking the flight and I'm having my family break. I know you don't know me and I don't want to sound like a show off, but honestly I'm at the front of the plane. If I was any nearer to the front I'd be the pilot.' Even though he was sticking to his guns he did it with panache and style. He could easily disarm you that way. We had many more conversations over the years by phone and by email. In some we laughed, in some we mused, in some we wrangled, in some we cried, and in some we put the world to rights. He was one of those people who just found a way into your heart. Honest, charming, funny and kind, with a big heart. Just a huge perfect personality who loved life and all those that were in his life. Whatever came at him, he took it and dealt with it, and still managed to find humour, kindness and courage. He will forever be in my heart and has taken up a piece of my soul. I hope the love and light that was in him will carry Deborah, their beloved boys, and the rest of his family through the darkest of times. AJ will be running the joint when we get there but I'll know where to find him. So AJ, save me a seat in the garden with the chickens and the dogs and we'll have a 'fag' and a good old natter. Fly safe and free my friend. xx Gaynor xx
Gaynor
21st October 2020